When I was first diagnosed with PCOS it was very overwhelming. My doctor
gave me a handful of papers to read up on and instructed me to lose weight, work
out regularly and change to a low-carb diet.
That was all I had to begin my journey with managing PCOS.
What I didn’t know was how stress, anxiety and depression are all directly correlated
with PCOS as a symptom, but also as a trigger to worsen our other PCOS
symptoms.
I first learned of the importance of mental and
emotional wellness while reading a white paper on PCOS in Australia (Link: http://www.managingpcos.org.au/pcos-evidence-based-guidelines). Their government recognizes PCOS as a modern
epidemic and has been doing studies to come up with a guideline for treatment to give
to those who are diagnosed. They mention
that a doctor, nutritionist as well as a counselor should all work as a team to
help their patient thrive.
Reading about this forced me to start looking at
my life and how stress has increased over the years, my reaction to stress has
worsened my symptoms and made it harder to manage my PCOS. I didn’t do anything for ME to release stress
from work and family life, so it would just build up over time.
Can you relate to this? Think about all the stress you hang onto when
you are at work, staying at home with the kids, dealing with
health issues and family issues. Do you
do anything to release that stress? Has
your health been hampered by stress?
Imagine what you would feel like if you could remove one or two of those
worries from your shoulders. You would
feel lighter and better capable of dealing with other issues life throws at you.
Below are 7 stress-relievers you can try to help relieve
stress in your life. I encourage you to
step out of your comfort zone and try some of them out to see what might work
for you. You just might find a new
passion and a new way to feel better!
1.
Read
a Book
I am a reader, so this comes naturally to me, but I recognize this isn't so for everyone.
I find that escaping in a good novel helps to push out the worries of
life and allows me to live in another world for a while. Others find that escaping in a Biogrophy or magazine does the same thing for them. I
encourage you to borrow a book from a friend, or go pick one up at the
bookstore and try using it as a way to unwind at the end of your day. A great placec to get used books cheap (and
to trade your read books) is www.paperbackswap.com.
It’s free and they’ll give you 2 credits when you sign up (that’s 2 free
books!).
2.
Journal
So, you’re probably thinking of the diary you had when you were 12 and
wondering why keeping a journal as a “mature adult” could help anything. Well, journaling forces you to sit
down (instead of running around the house doing chores) and think about what’s going on in your life. I’ve found that it slows down my thoughts,
and putting pen to paper allows me the chance to think through life’s dramas,
decisions, feelings, etc. When I am
overwhelmed, taking even 15 short minutes to sit down and write about what I’m
feeling can help immensely to recharge my mood and help clear the fog to see decisions and circumstances clearly. Make it fun. Pick out a
cute journal that reflects your style and personality. Write about anything that comes to mind. Doodle. Be a
poet…anything that will help your mind to slow down and allow you to focus on
yourself.
Another option if you’re not too keen on keeping a paper journal- you can start a blog (blogger is a free one) and make it private if you prefer to keep
prying eyes away.
3.
Meditate/Pray
As I’ve mentioned above a few times, it’s important to have time to yourself
where you can reflect on your life, feelings, thoughts, or just push the world
out of your head for a while. Meditation
or prayer can help to center your thoughts and calm your mind. Try going to a quiet corner of your house-
your bedroom, bathroom, or even a closet.
Sit comfortably; close your eyes and work on pushing thoughts out of
your head. If you’re religious you can
focus on God- give your worries to Him and thank Him for what you have. If
you’re not religious, you can recite a mantra. Try positive things like - “I’m beautiful”,
“I am a courageous woman”, “I am free from anger/sadness”. I encourage you to also practice breathing
exercises to release any tenseness and help clear a foggy or distracted mind.
4.
Take
a bath
This may sound like an obvious way to destress, but how many of us actually make a practice of taking a
nice relaxing bath? I like to throw in
bubble bath and some calming aromatherapy oils, usually lavender to help clear
my mind and release tension in my muscles. Maybe even light some candles and read a book.
Next time you go to the store, splurge a little and get some delicious
smelling bath goodies. Taking time for
yourself is important- so pamper away!
5.
Exercise
I find it difficult to keep on an exercise routine, but when I’m on one I am always reminded how amazing I feel throughout the day. I’m actually alert and energetic, perform
better at work and am able to better manage any stress that gets thrown my
way. Not only that, but the endorphins released during exercise actually help you combat depression. Also,
keeping the weight off our middles really helps keep our PCOS bodies balanced
and our cycles regular.
If you have a hard time sticking to
a workout schedule, I encourage you to pull out your calendar and block out an
hour 3 – 4 times a week. Try
to recruit a friend or your spouse to work out with you so that you have
accountability and encouragement.
Another idea- try doing the Couch to 5K program (http://www.coolrunning.com/engine/2/2_3/181.shtml). It trains you gradually over several weeks to be able
to run a 5k. Sign up for a 5K in your area (like
PowerUp’s 5k in September) so that you have a goal to work towards.
6.
Be
creative
For some of us, being creative is much easier said than done. There are many ways to be creative- painting,
scrapbooking, card making, wood working, photography, sewing, singing/music,
knitting/crocheting, cake decorating, party planning….you get the idea. Take a few hours a few times a month to create
something. Work on a fun project and put your heart into it. A great site to gain inspiration is Pinterest.
Another fun idea is to host a Pinterest Party.
Have a bunch of friends choose one or two things they want to make from
Pinterest (a food item, a beverage, and /or a craft) and they can bring the
supplies for those things. Now everyone
can share the food and beverages, and craft together on projects they already
wanted to do from their Pinterest boards!
7.
Talk
to someone
We all know that life can quickly and easily become overwhelming. It’s
important to have someone you can go to regularly and talk things out with. If you don’t have a close friend you feel
comfortable talking with, consider seeing a counselor or a pastor at your
church (many churches offer free pastoral care) every few weeks.
You’ll be surprised at how much it helps to release what you have been worrying
about, to hear a different perspective on an issue that has been weighing on you as well as gain encouragement when you need it most.
I also encourage you to attend a near-by Power Up group each month. Building relationships with ladies that are going
through much of what you are can help you in ways you never knew. You may even gain a new friend or two!
Written by: Crystal Warren, Representative for
Power Up for PCOS which provides support to women with PCOS through
educational Power Up Groups, building connections with other PCOS women,
calendar of upcoming PCOS events, professional referrals and reviews, PCOS
store, and other specialized events to raise money for PCOS research. To
find our more, visit http://www.powerupforpcos.com,
email info@powerupforpcos.com or
by calling 810-545-PCOS (7267)
Power Up for PCOS - emPowering Women to Manage
PCOS
*Please note that I am not a medical professional. I am
not qualified to give out any medical advice. I am a woman with PCOS who is
sharing my personal experiences in this blog and I advise you to consult a
professional.*